Being a positive mom does not mean you have to be a perfect mom. Every single day with child is going to be different. Always remember each child should be given that special time with you, no matter what age child is. Schedule one on one time with each child. Focus on the positive things each day. Give your child or children hugs & kisses every day. Be a source of encouragement for your child, when they are growing and trying new things for the first time.